I don’t trust crying men

The only kind of men who advocate crying are the men without the self-control to prevent themselves from crying.
For them crying is not a choice. They can't stop themselves.
They lack discipline, the foundational pillar of masculinity, and attempt to convince you down to their level.
The primary element of masculinity is to do what you don't want to do.
It's acting without motivation, decisions based on discipline.
You train when you don't want to train.
You smile when you don't want to smile.
You sink with the Titanic when you don't. . .